Know what you are getting into!!!

Morning Inspiration….This is a great way to start your day learning how to put others first. Women learning how to put their differences to the side to put the child first. Learning how to love one another as women. Ladies if you are in this situation take key…You know what you are getting into when choose a particular  man don’t think things are going to change because you are in the picture. I am so with Jada, I could never be with a man who denies his kids because if he denies others that are not by you he will soon deny yours too.


jada pinkett smithA letter to a friend:
Blended families are NEVER easy, but here’s why I don’t have a lot of sympathy for your situation because… we CHOOSE them. When I married Will, I knew Trey was part of the package…Period! If I didn’t want that…I needed to marry someone else. Then I learned if I am going to love Trey…I had to learn to love the most important person in the world to him…his mother. And the two of us may not have always LIKED each other… but we have learned to LOVE each other.

I can’t support any actions that keep a man from his children of a previous marriage. These are the situations that separate the women from the girls. Your behavior is that of an insecure child who needs to recognize her own weaknesses that MUST be strengthened to take on the task at hand. We can’t say we love our man and then come in between him and his children. THAT’S selfishness…NOT love. WOMAN UP… I’ve been there…I know. My blended family made me a giant… Taught me so much about love, commitment and it has been the biggest ego death to date. It’s time you let your blended family make you the giant you truly are.